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Beat The Mental Health Out Of It! | Dark-Humor Conversations On Serious Mental Illness & Trauma

If you live with mental illness—or love someone who does—and you’re tired of sugar-coated wellness talk, this show is for you!

"Beat The Mental Health Out Of It!" blends dark humor with real recovery so you feel seen, steadied, and a little lighter. We tell it like it is, so you don’t have to.

Hosted by Nicholas Wichman (“The DEFECTIVE Schizoaffective”) and often joined by co-host Tony Medeiros ("IndyPocket"), this is a brutally honest mental health podcast about what it’s actually like to live with serious mental illness on the schizophrenia spectrum. We talk schizoaffective disorder, schizophrenia, psychosis, depression, anxiety, bipolar disorder, BPD, PTSD, addiction, religious trauma, bad therapy, psych wards, meds, disability, and trying to build a life in a system that isn’t built for us. You’ll get:

– Lived-experience truth from someone who hears voices, dissociates, relapses, parents, plays music, and still shows up.

– Grounded insight from a mental health professional who has sat across from hundreds of clients and worked inside the system.

– Edgy, stigma-smashing, sometimes controversial conversations about mental illness, relationships, family dysfunction, religion, work, creativity, and survival.

– Challenging takeaways and coping ideas you can actually try—along with laughs that punch up, down, left, right… everywhere.

This show is for people juggling therapy, meds, trauma, and everyday chaos who want honest talk, gallows humor, and zero judgment. Whether you’re schizoaffective, living with schizophrenia or psychosis, dealing with PTSD, supporting a loved one, or just trying not to lose your mind, "Beat The Mental Health Out Of It!" gives you language, community, and brutally honest hope.

We’re not your therapists—we’re fellow passengers on “The Struggle Bus,” sharing what we’ve learned the hard way and refusing to suffer in silence.

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Beat The Mental Health Out Of It! | Dark-Humor Conversations On Serious Mental Illness & Trauma

Acceptance As Growth | The Power Of Friendship & Accountability w/ Josh Guffey

June 02, 2025 • Nicholas Wichman - Mental Health Advocate • Season 1 • Episode 16

In this compelling episode of "Beat The Mental Health Out Of It!", we explore how acceptance, accountability, and friendship serve as catalysts for personal growth.

Discover how to own your truths, embrace your regrets, and choose repair over drama. We dive into the impact of good versus harmful teachers, the negative influence of mentors on relationships, and the importance of addressing mental health openly and honestly, especially with our youth.

Join us as we treat acceptance not as a defeat but as an ignition for growth—learning from challenging experiences, including our own "Fool’s Folly" band breakup and childhood lessons.

We also discuss naming essential friendship values such as honesty, trust, and the power of repair over conflict.

Tune in for insights on:

Why acceptance is a launchpad for growth
The importance of accountability in owning your truths
Spotting the difference between good and harmful teachers
The role of negative mentors in shaping your life

With a mix of dark humor and real-life perspectives, this episode is designed for anyone navigating the complexities of mental health alongside challenging life experiences.

Name one thing you’re done denying and your next action. Post “I accept ___; I will ___ today” on our Discord "The Struggle Bus"—we’ll hold you to it and so will Guff! (link below)

Beat The Mental Health Out Of It! is a candid mental health podcast with lived experience—schizoaffective disorder, schizophrenia spectrum psychosis, BPD, PTSD, trauma recovery, coping skills, and dark humor that fights stigma.

Hosted by Nicholas Wichman (“The DEFECTIVE Schizoaffective”) with frequent co-host Tony Medeiros, ("IndyPocket"), we talk serious mental illness, psych wards, religious trauma, bad therapy, meds, disability, and messy real-world coping.

New episodes drop every other Monday at 6am ET.

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Podcast cover art by Ryan Manning